Reborn in the 70s: Pampered by Regiment Commander-Chapter 1297 - 852: Persuading Others and Persuading Oneself
Second watch.
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"Does brother-in-law know?" Chuxia’s first reaction was to ask if Yu Mingtao knew about Zhou Jiping’s situation, but as soon as she spoke, she realized it was a bit redundant. If Yu Mingtao knew the reason, how could he allow the Yu family to cause such a commotion?
Sure enough, Zhou Jiping’s answer was just as Chuxia thought. She felt that her husband had done enough for her, and she believed that in situations where she could endure, she shouldn’t worry her husband too much.
So, it’s hard to change some things inherent in people. Even if she was deeply hurt by the Yu family and determined to divorce Yu Mingtao at that time, her first reaction when encountering problems again was still to endure and avoid.
Chuxia looked at her speechlessly, really not knowing what to say.
Zhao Yulan, however, understood and comfortingly hugged Zhou Jiping’s shoulders, sighing, "Fortunately, everything is resolved now. You’re too kind-hearted, this child. Mingtao marrying you is truly his fortune accumulated over several lifetimes."
Lin Baohe frowned without speaking, clearly disagreeing with his wife’s sentiments. Of course, he understood why she thought this way, because his wife had endured similarly before.
However, although he was honest, he cared deeply for his wife and daughter. If they were bullied, he would certainly feel it and definitely confront the ones bullying them.
He believed that once a man married and had children, he should protect them well. It didn’t matter how people treated him, but as long as someone was unkind to his wife and daughter, he would never tolerate it.
Now he was thankful that his daughter didn’t have such a personality. Even if she did, his son-in-law wouldn’t let her suffer.
Having lived in the Zhou family for so long, he knew the personalities of his daughter’s sisters-in-law and could tell they genuinely treated her well, so he had a good impression of them and naturally didn’t want them harmed.
But as a man, there were some things he shouldn’t say. He hesitated a bit, then looked at his daughter.
Feeling her father’s gaze, Chuxia looked over and understood his meaning, nodding, then turned to Zhou Jiping, "Second sister, I greatly admire your kindness.
My mother is also especially kind. My paternal grandparents and uncle and aunt used to bully us, and my mother always put up with it, but because we lived close, and the villagers liked to spread rumors, my father soon found out.
Every time my father learned about it, the first thing he did was stand up for my mother. My aggressive grandparents usually bullied my father as well, but during those times, they had no choice but to listen quietly.
I’m saying this because I hope second sister will give brother-in-law this chance. Brother-in-law is busy with work, and if you don’t tell him, he might not realize.
But if one day he finds out you’ve been bullied by the Yu family so much and your health has suffered because of it, how do you think he’ll feel?
A man wouldn’t be happy if he can’t even protect his wife!"
"I..." Zhou Jiping hesitated a bit, "He’s already stayed home for a year because of me. Though he doesn’t say it, I can feel that he’s worried about the Yu family.
If things get more strained because of me and the Yu family, how much would that bother him? After all, those are the family that raised him; it’s different from Uncle Lin."
"Fine, I’ve said what I needed to say, second sister make your own decision." Chuxia waved her hand wearily, "I’m tired, going back to rest, you guys chat."
"Sister-in-law..." Zhou Jiping looked at her anxiously, "I... I know you’re doing this for my good, but I’m just this weak in character. Don’t be angry with me, okay?"
"I’m not angry..." Biting her lip, Chuxia still replied, "It’s not your fault; it’s our different personalities that causes such a divide. Honestly, seeing you being bullied and always enduring it makes me uncomfortable.
I’m not blaming you, it’s just..." She paused and sighed, "It’s just a personality thing; I’m straightforward like a stubborn mule. Second sister, don’t take it to heart."
"Sister-in-law..." Zhou Jiping moved closer to Chuxia and held her hand, "You’re straightforward and sincere to those who genuinely care for you. I also want to be like you, but I can’t do it suddenly; I’m always prone to overthink.
To put it bluntly, I’m the kind of person who cares a lot about others’ opinions. If you think about it, what can someone do if they believe my mother-in-law and sister-in-law?
"Those truly close to me will still interact with me; only those who are jealous and wish misfortune upon me will quietly plot behind my back. What do I have to worry about?
You see, I understand all these principles, but I can’t help but care, and then I harm myself, so these are the flaws in my character.
It’s not that I don’t want to change, but temporarily, I can’t. Look at Xiao Si living carefree and happy; I wish I could be like that, but I can’t do it..."
Chuxia interrupted helplessly, "Second sister, I understand what you mean, no need to explain to me. As long as you have the awareness and are willing to adjust, that’s fine.
When your health issues arise, when you’re suffering, those who truly love you will feel pain too. For them, second sister must let herself get better."
"I will." Zhou Jiping’s eyes lit up with a smile, "I have never felt this good before, it turns out that voicing one’s worries really does relieve stress."
...
The medication was only taken for five days, and Zhou Jiping’s bleeding stopped. The sixth day happened to be Sunday, and Yu Mingtao rushed over. Seeing his wife’s visibly rosy complexion, he was so excited that he rubbed his hands constantly, chanting, "So good, so good, this time it’s really good." He then bowed to all the elders in gratitude.
"And me too." Chuxia said leisurely.
"Sister-in-law, thank you, thank you..."
"Say thank you less and care for Second Sister more..." Chuxia looked at him plainly, "Second Sister was afraid you’d be troubled, so she didn’t tell you anything, but isn’t it also wrong that Second Brother-in-law didn’t notice anything at all?"
"Yes, yes, it’s my fault." Yu Mingtao quickly admitted his mistake, "I was too careless. I promise, I won’t let something like this happen again."
"Don’t say it to me, say it to Second Sister."
"Little Ji..."
Zhou Jiping gave him a push, "Alright, it’s enough that you know. Besides, saying more is useless, I’ll watch your actions in the future.
Of course, I also have a responsibility in this situation. I should have told you, otherwise it wouldn’t have gotten so serious. Let’s both change, and let it pass this time, okay?"
"Okay, okay, okay..."
Chuxia secretly rolled her eyes, finding her sister-in-law truly helpless... well, maybe her standards were too high, as most women of this era think like this.
After staying just one night, Yu Mingtao left.
The next day, Zhou Jiping received a call from Old Madam Zhou, saying Yu Mingxia had gone crying to the Zhou family, seeming as if she had been gravely wronged.
"It must be that Second Brother-in-law got angry." Chuxia said.
"Hmm." Zhou Jiping nodded, then smiled, "I know you still think I’m a bit pathetic, but this is how Yu Mingtao and I interact. Actually, as long as he knows I’ve been wronged, he’ll stand up for me immediately.
It’s just that I’m considerate of him being too busy, and I didn’t want to bother him, so I kept it from him. To put it nicely, we both think of each other."
"Second Sister, I know Second Brother-in-law is good to you, you don’t have to explain to me..." Chuxia looked at her helplessly, "Every time you talk to me these days, you explain this, aren’t you tired?"
Zhou Jiping’s face turned red with embarrassment, "Okay, I’ll stop saying it."
"I didn’t mean that." Chuxia sighed, smiling at her, "Second Sister, I’m sorry, I admit I haven’t been in a good mood lately, dragging you into it."
"Don’t worry, Xiaomi will definitely be fine." Zhou Jiping sat next to her and wrapped her arm around her shoulder, "He’s been through so many dangerous missions before and nothing happened, this time will surely be the same.
What you need to do is eat well, drink well, and take care of your body. If he can come back before the baby is born, that would be best. Even if he can’t, when he does come back, he should see a healthy you and a healthy baby."
"Mm." Chuxia took a deep breath, "I guess I’m too idle, which is why I’m always overthinking..." She thought for a moment and looked at Zhou Jiping, "I want to ask Elder Qi to be my mentor, what do you think?"
After hesitating for a moment, Zhou Jiping said, "It’s good, but after all these years, I haven’t heard Elder Qi taking on any apprentices, not even teaching his own daughter.
I know he’s a bit different with you, but this isn’t something you can assume, just be mentally prepared. In case he doesn’t accept you, don’t be disappointed."
"I know, I just really admire his skills. Anyway, I have at most five classes a day, with two afternoons free. I can go to his place to study, and in my spare time, I can digest the knowledge I learn.
That way, when I have the baby, I can keep myself busy at home and not be too bored..." Chuxia laughed sheepishly, "I’m clear when advising you, but when it comes to myself, it’s the same."
"That makes me happy, it means you truly care about Xiaomi." Zhou Jiping laughed, "Before, seeing you always so indifferent, Xiao Si and I worried you’d one day get tired of Xiaomi’s stubbornness and leave him."
Knowing her sister-in-law was joking, Chuxia still felt comforted—this meant both sister-in-law and sister-in-law inwardly and sincerely approved of her!
It was not until half a month later that Chuxia received a call from Zhou Mikang. The Division Commander’s Tongzi made use of a break to secretly call her. (To be continued. If you like this work, you are welcome to vote for recommendations and monthly tickets at Qidian (qidian.com), your support is my greatest motivation. Mobile users please read on m.qidian.com.)
