After Rebirth, the Celebrity Daughter is the Medical Expert!-Chapter 513 - 401: High-End Boyfriend (6)

The girl said, "Every day I live in such a contradictory and complex way, until I saw your new book, where you said this—those so-called ’flaws’ of yours, those traits in you that even you don’t like, are actually your most valuable assets, just that the expression of them is a bit too intense.

It’s like adding salt to a dish—if you add too much salt it can taste bad, but if you add just the right amount, the dish becomes incredibly delicious.

A trait, as long as you use it in the right place and use it properly, you and everyone around you will realize that your ’flaws’ are actually your strengths.

They can be utilized by you instead of becoming your stumbling blocks.

The only thing you need to do is to express these traits to the right degree, at the right time, in the right way, without going overboard."

"I suddenly felt chills reading this passage, uncontrollably wanting to cry." The girl’s beautiful eyes streamed with hot tears, "In the past, I never thought about this issue. But when I read this passage, I instinctively felt that every word you said was true. My so-called bragging is actually an overexpression of confidence; my so-called restlessness is the result of over-thinking positively; as for my so-called show-off attitude, it’s actually an overexpression of my leadership qualities, persuasiveness, and desire to perform—these things themselves are not a problem. I realized that these so-called ’flaws’ of mine are actually traits others often praise me for. No wonder I can never completely change them!"

The girl cried and laughed again. 𝘧𝓇ℯℯ𝑤ℯ𝘣𝓃ℴ𝓋𝑒𝑙.𝑐𝘰𝑚

She hurriedly took Ning Youguang’s newly released book this year, "Loving You Is Loving Myself," from her bag—

"Thankfully, Teacher Ning, you wrote this book, otherwise I don’t know how many detours I would have taken, wasting so much of life before seeing my problems and thus being trapped in the mire of my imperfection, unable to extricate myself." Ning Youguang gently spoke, looking at the girl who was both crying and laughing in front of her, "The reason we strive to grow is often because the pressures of life make us suffer, leaving us breathless.

Those things that are ours but we try hard to hide, desperately deny, and refuse to admit all belong to the domain of shadows.

They lurk deep in our consciousness, so whether it’s others or ourselves, it’s difficult to directly be aware of their existence.

However, they constantly suggest to us, making us feel full of flaws, unattractive, worthless.

Due to the influence of these suggestions, we always feel there’s something dirty hidden in our hearts, so we are reluctant to examine our inner selves, afraid that this dirt will be exposed in the light of day.

We fear ourselves, fear those thoughts and feelings once suppressed by our subjective consciousness.

This fear often exists in the subconscious, and we can’t directly feel it, yet it influences us. To cover the shadows in our hearts, we can only deceive others, and also deceive ourselves.

While they become the side that destroys our relationships, stifles our spirits, obstructs us from realizing our dreams—this side is called by psychologists Jung as the dark side of human nature."

The girl nodded in tears, "Teacher Ning, I often feel like a big liar who denies what she hides."

"Jung once asked everyone a question ’Do you want to be a good person, or a complete person?’" Ning Youguang called the girl’s name softly, "Xiao Shi, when you feel like a big liar, have you ever thought that each of us is imperfect, everyone has a dark side they don’t want to touch, which family and friends are unwilling to accept, and even we ourselves can’t face. So, many people at all costs, make every effort to disguise as someone loved by everyone, making themselves live tired."

"I know many people are imperfect, and I don’t want to become perfect." The girl called Xiao Shi shook her head in confusion, "I just want to be a better person. I always thought that I would only be worthy of love if I become better. So I made up my mind to make myself better, even if it means lying."

Xiao Shi continued to confess to Ning Youguang, "I always tell people ’Be patient, don’t rush.’ ’Have taste, be elegant.’ ’Be refined, love yourself.’ ’Eat healthy, don’t eat junk food.’ But the more I act refined and elegant before others, the more I feel hypocritical behind the scenes."