After Rebirth, the Celebrity Daughter is the Medical Expert!-Chapter 515 - 401: High-End Boyfriend (8)

Xiao Shi raised her head and looked seriously at Ning Youguang, her face slightly pale.

Ning Youguang spoke gently, "Many people believe that ’the gifts from heaven must be perfect.’ In reality, the situation is often the opposite. It’s quite possible that those things that appear like prickly cacti to you, when peeled off, contain sweet and delicious fruit inside.

Jung said, ’To fantasize about light is useless; the only way out is to recognize the shadow.’

To achieve Unity of Heaven and Man, we must possess a complete self, allowing our bright and dark sides to coexist harmoniously. In our current era, gold is always buried close to the pile of rubbish."

"To pursue light, one must embrace darkness. Only by confronting the inner shadow can we truly experience the integration of positive and negative, light and dark into a sense of wholeness. If we repress our inner darkness, refusing to acknowledge its existence, we become enslaved by it." Ning Youguang looked at Xiao Shi with eyes full of encouragement, "Despite being negative, our inner darkness can play a positive role, providing guidance that makes our existence whole. Only by acknowledging and accepting a complete self can we possess the freedom of choice."

Xiao Shi said painfully, "Mr. Ning, I’ve tried many methods before, including hypnotherapy, acupuncture, rebirth experiences, extreme sports, meditation, and contemplation... but none have worked. No matter what I do, I can’t eliminate the hatred in my heart."

"Jung once said he would rather be a complete person than a good one. In striving to be ’good,’ seeking the approval of others, we lose our true selves, which is more frightening." Ning Youguang said, "In our growth process, people around us make us believe that our traits can be categorized as ’good’ or ’bad,’ with ’good’ traits to be promoted and ’bad’ ones to be corrected or concealed. This mindset establishes itself from the moment we learn to distinguish ’self’ from ’others.’ However, as we continue to grow older, we gradually realize that the world is a unified whole, and our hearts are interconnected with others’. From this perspective, we cannot help but question whether ’good’ and ’bad’ are truly objective standards. Should we really remove those ’bad’ traits from ourselves? But how can there be good without bad? How can there be love without hate? How can there be courage without fear?

Life inherently contains countless possibilities. Once we start to reexamine the relationship between our inner world and the surrounding material world, we discover that many of the concepts we were educated with from childhood are paradoxical.

The very nature of them is contradictory and cannot withstand scrutiny.

If so, why should we deny ourselves, harm ourselves due to labels instilled from childhood that weren’t right from the start?

On the contrary, when we acknowledge and accept ourselves, the reality of everything around us can finally emerge, and we can live out more possibilities of life. Because continually acknowledging and accepting ourselves is a process of constantly breaking through our own limiting concepts."

"Mr. Ning, can you help me see my dark side?" Xiao Shi asked.

"Merely seeing one’s dark side is not enough for one’s personal growth; you also need to understand what the dark side brings to our growth to view it with a tolerant perspective." Ning Youguang said, "If you are willing to accept growth and change, I will teach you to acknowledge, accept, and embrace the shadow in your heart, allowing you to unleash your potential, open your heart, and completely transform your perception of others and the world."

"I am willing to grow and change, I am willing." Xiao Shi replied tearfully, "Please help me, won’t you? I really don’t want to keep living this self-deceptive life anymore."

Ning Youguang said, "Are you willing to undergo hypnosis?"

"I can do it." Xiao Shi thought for a moment and made up her mind, "Mr. Ning, do you want to hypnotize me? When?"

"Now." Ning Youguang stood up.

"Now?" Xiao Shi exclaimed in surprise, "Don’t we need to find a hotel or somewhere to lie down?"

"No need."

"Then how will you hypnotize me?"

"I have this." Ning Youguang took a slender necklace from the drawer of his desk.

"Hypnotize with a necklace?" Xiao Shi couldn’t comprehend Ning Youguang’s actions.

"Yes, please sit properly." Ning Youguang stood in front of Xiao Shi.

Once Xiao Shi was sitting properly in the chair, she slowly said, "Prepare yourself, and please follow my words to imagine..."

Her voice grew increasingly gentle and slow: "You may imagine yourself entering an elevator, pressing the button for the lowest floor, the elevator opens, and you step into the garden deep within your heart, appreciating the surroundings, then find a comfortable place to sit, take a deep breath, and ask yourself the following questions, quietly awaiting the answers from the depths of your heart..."

"Alright..." After the hypnosis ended.

Ning Youguang resumed his normal speaking voice, "Xiao Shi, please open your eyes and carefully write down the answers I ask you next in your notebook, then enter your mysterious garden and ask yourself these questions."

She handed Xiao Shi paper and a pen.

Xiao Shi obediently reached out to receive them.

Ning Youguang began to inquire:

"First question, ’My life has turned out this way because of how I perceive myself?’"